Face and Defeat Them All !!!
Defeat them then You Will Be Independent
Beating others is a common sight, even defeating your rivals even if it's a common thing. But actually, what will I discuss here? Who should we beat ?. The foolishness in us is what we have to overcome, because without you knowing we have been controlled by the passions that lead to the stupid things, what are the examples? about examples of his many examples such as, lazy, immoral, and doing other things despicable.
Even the Prophet (s) once said:
Musnad Ahmad 18937: Having narrated a hadith to us Yazid has informed us Abul Ashabab from Abul Hakam Al Bunany from Abu Barzah from the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam, he said: "What I fear most of you is the cruel lust from the stomach, and your genitals, and the misleading passions. "
From the above hadith, it is very clear that the most difficult thing to beat, even so, many people who make lust as God (indirectly) how can? of course, can, they are more interested in his lust, such as leaving the obligation to worship, skipping school, learning lazy, and much more. Of course, you will feel more comfortable when you follow your passions but there are things to remember that comfort, the pleasure of your passions is only temporary. Conversely, if you keep trying, diligent worship, even you never escape the goodness-kindness. Do you immediately receive the sweet fruit? No, but I need to remind you that there are things that are visible and invisible, the meaning of your life will be enough even though according to that little person, why? because with a solemn worship of your heart will always be calm, other than that when you study hard, diligently enter the classroom, and always do the task given the father/mother teacher/lecturer. It's a good thing not to do bad things, like lazy, yes it's very fun to do, relax in front of TV continuously, spend time with scrolling down social media, busy with other people's business and so on but need you know, that the business is all just temporary, false, "fake". If you are constantly following your passions, I am sure you will not be a useful person to others. Keep in mind that your business will be paid at a later time, you just have to keep trying without doubting the final result, because the final result already exists that set it out of it HADAPI and LOSE THEM ALL !!!
Ignorance, laziness, lust, and burning. Make you a "useless" person, for others, and stand under them. Do not ever hope with luck, because the likelihood of coming luckily is only 1 of 999999999999999999 failure, do you want to wait for something uncertain? wasting your life on something useless, getting you under, getting excited about your stupidity, and your life will be shackled by false comfort. Living by following stupid things and following passions is fun, but there is good to be sacrificed, you will lose your beautiful ideas. Then how to donk? HADAPI and BROKE THEM ALL !!! by throwing, fighting, and even extinguishing the ignorance that exists within you, but being lust is a human nature then you just need to control your passions. With their invincible, all of you will be free from the shackles of ignorance so you will become a useful person for others and your life will more... more beautiful.
"... The best of humans are the most beneficial to our fellow human beings ..." [HR. Thabrani in Al-Ausath]
Then why should we beat them all, if they make us comfortable? Before I discuss further, do you have any ideas? what is your life purpose ?. If you have goals you have to sacrifice, erode, and even throw away the stupidity that is within you, you must be able to control your passions. Yes ... to achieve a goal indeed we must make sacrifices, as well as buying something. Suppose you want to buy a new HandPhone whose price is Rp 1,000,000, but the money you saved only Rp 800,000, so what should you do, you have to reduce your lifestyle, you have to reduce your snack, you should try not to throw away - waste your money, you have to sacrifice more things you "like" for your CellPhone, so you can save money for the tube. Similarly, reaching your goals and life goals, let's just say your goal is "HandPhone" that you will buy the price, then let's say "the money you saved" or "800,000" is your current capability, its like "what can I do now?" "what is my skill?" you should start identifying your abilities, what your current achievements are, and decide what "HandPhone" price you will buy, then you can start "saving" to buy the "HandPhone" you want.
From the above description, in buying "HandPhone" alone we need a sacrifice to buy it, the same thing with the ideals, the purpose of our lives. We need a sacrifice to achieve it all, in what way? reducing, eroding, even abandoning your bad habits, and if your goals are greater than others, then you should try more because you need to pay with more sacrifice to achieve your desired goals. For example, when your classmates are wasting more time, if you want to be better than them, all you have to do is learn more when they have fun, even sacrificing your vacation time by learning, yes ... if you want to be better than them, you should do better than they do. That way you can be better than them because you have sacrificed/paid more for your goals. For that once again FACE and BROKE THEM ALL !!!
I Failed But I Will Not Give Up
You've tried but failed, to be a tough person you really have to be prepared for failure, because it is a delayed success. Try to think positively, it may be that you have done so far not the best for you because the good thing you think is not necessarily good for you, but God understands what you "need". So things you like do not necessarily need you, but God knows better about yourself, for that religion can be a guarantor of your happiness. Be assured that Allah SWT has prepared the best plan for you, so you just have to keep trying to achieve your real goals, and do not stop trying until God tells you to stop in His ways.
"You may hate something when he is very good to you, and you may like something, but he is very bad for you; Allah knows, and ye know not. " (Surah Al Baqarah: 216)
When you face failure, then your faith is tested. Remember that there is qada and qadar (good luck and bad luck) awaiting you, which needs to be done just be prepared for it. So stop dissolving in sadness when you fail, make it all the lesson. Even I myself have experienced a failure, yes ... for example I never fail as much as 3x in a row in registering state universities, the first SNMPTN (National Selection of State University Entrance [Pathway invitation]) I failed with the college I want the second, SBMPTN (Seleksi Bersama Masuk Perguruan Tinggi Negeri) where I failed for the second time, and the third I am willing to leave my home, parents, younger siblings and my comfort zone in Sulawesi to follow SLMPTN (Local Selection Enter State College) in one of the state universities in Semarang which I was idam-kan right, the result? I failed again. At that time I was dissolved in grief, dissolved in confusion, then I tried to remember the positive side of it, then I conclude that "college" is probably not the best for me, I end up enrolled in private college, Informatics Engineering yes ... it's the department that I'm passionate about, but again I can not take a course that I desire for money because of the problem. At that time my sister had an accident and my parents had to take care of her and was forced to pay the money that I had to pay my registration fee used for the cost of taking care of my sister's problem at the time. I was so reluctantly looking for a college that was still open, that's when I found UNISSULA, and then I looked for a department which would be friendly to my parents' financial condition at the time. Then I found the English Literature department, without thinking I signed up and up until now I am still struggling with the majors, but I try to live it because I believe this is the best for me. And all this time I did not experience any problem because alhamdulillah I live it with wholeheartedly. Yes ... the course is not what I wanted before but I'm sure there is a good "thing" for me behind all this.
For that, you just need to always think positively, because positive thinking will bring you into a better Person and rest assured that you do nothing is in vain. Everything will pay off according to what you sacrifice, as well as the analogy of buying a HandPhone that I have discussed earlier.
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I'm sorry if there's a mistake in the article I've created, I hope every article I make is useful for all of us, I hope the reader will give me feedback so I can fix the mistake I've been making so I can create more articles quality and useful course. All of me and thank you.
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